Creating A Wedding Time Capsule

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Wedding Time Capsule

Creating A Wedding Time Capsule

One of the wedding trends that’s really revving up brides today is the addition of a time capsule to the wedding prep proceedings. Yes, the wedding time capsule is a growing trend — to the point where you can buy a pre-made kit from many websites.

In kit form, your wedding time capsule takes the form of an attractive tin, in which you place various mementos — photos, videos — as well as predictions for the future; then, you seal it all up with some festive stickers, to help discourage premature peeking. You decide ahead of time how long you’ll wait until you open it again — your 10th anniversary? 25th anniversary? And then you write a stern directive to yourself on the tin to help you keep to the agreement.

Although most people equate “time capsule” with “something you bury in the ground,” burying your wedding time capsule isn’t a great idea. Not only does that subject the contents to extreme temperature variations, but with the US Census recently reporting that the average American moves every five years, chances of you leaving behind a buried capsule before the hoped-for anniversary rolls around are high indeed. Instead, keep yours out of the elements and somewhere relatively kind — avoid damp attics, but a climate-controlled closet would be just perfect.

Some of us just like to do things our own way, and a wedding time capsule is no exception. Of course you can create your own! And a great way to do that is to get close friends and relatives in on the fun. Have them scribble up some predictions — or perhaps marital advice. Take advantage of a pre-wedding party to snap photos of your intimates, and tuck the photos into the capsule. If you really want to motivate people to get involved, hold some kind of drawing for participants, such as a wedding raffle — give away a box of fine cigars, a bottle of bubbly or even an afternoon at a spa.

While you’re letting others in on the action, there are a number of ways to go about it. One is to compose a list of predictions for everyone to guess at — the whole experience is similar to filling out a junior high slam book, and just as fun. For example, ask participants to predict:

How many children you’ll have,
what kind of household robots you’ll have,
how many career changes you’ve gone through,
what major nation we’re closest to, and which one we’re mad at,
what animal is the trendiest pet,

… and so on.

Another is to ask your wedding party and close friends to compose short letters to you. Give them each envelope, and instruct them to tell you on the outside when it’s time to open the envelope. Some will simply say “fifth anniversary,” “10th anniversary,” or “when your first child is born.” Others will get more creative — and you’ll probably find it’s terrific fun to stretch out the time capsule concept in this inventive, unpredictable way.

 

How to Start Planning Your Wedding

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START PLANNING A WEDDING

The holidays are over. It’s time to start planning your special day. The wedding is in 8 months and you have not booked anything yet? No panic, you have plenty of time. Avoid procrastinating and you will be fine. Stay focused and follow these steps:

1. Shop for a wedding planner

 

A wedding planner is not a luxury. A wedding planner is a necessity. I would even say a wedding planner is a requirement for a stress-free, professionally planned wedding. Why? Because the wedding planner works for you. She/He is like your personal assistant who helps you plan everything step-by-step, reminds you about important dates, gets you good deals and keeps away the trouble on the day of. If you hire a professional to do your nails, hire a professional to plan the most important day of your life.

2. Discuss the guest list and the budget.

Close up shot of a wedding planner

Along the way, you will realize that your expectations don’t match the reality. It’s quite hard to find something you want at a price you like. That’s why it is important to discuss your initial guest count and preferrable budget with your fiance and family to keep that in mind when shopping for venues. Let your wedding planner know about your plans and ask for recommendations.

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This is the main milestone that you need to achieve. It might be difficult to choose between “the best” and “the most cost-effective”. Some people, however, find exactly what they want. Other options would be to increase your budget or cut down the guest count. Discuss the details with your wedding planner and family and make a decision.

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You have the date, the time and the venue. It’s time to send the Save-the-Date cards. It will allow your out-of-town guests to better prepare for your wedding. If the wedding is in 3 months, skip the Save-the Dates and send out invitations with detailed information. Ask your guests to RSVP by a specific date to know how many guests to expect for at wedding.

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Hire professionals. You don’t want to end up losing your pictures, getting food poisoning or having an empty dance floor at your wedding. Work with your wedding planner, ask for recommendations and try to get some deals on good vendors if they are out of your budget. I’d recommend to rather spend your time on that instead of wasting your money on unprofessionals.

6. Shop for a wedding dress…f06641_44cce7dab10d4d3990c9aad1ed31678b

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and your bridesmaids’ dresses at the same time. This way you can enjoy the time with your girlfriends and check off this part of your list. I see a lot of brides stress about their wedding dress because they started looking last minute. Get it done as soon as possible. No need for extra panic when the wedding is just around the corner.

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When you take care of the main points such as guest list, budget, vendors, venue, etc. relax. Don’t stress over small stuff, instead, enjoy it! You are the bride; you get to make the world revolve around you. Make your wedding planning an unforgettable journey and have fun with it!

This post was written by one of the best wedding planners in the industry

Regina Galiyeva Regina Galiyeva